348 Tingle Road
Wynnum. Qld. 4178
Thursday14thSept‘72
Dear
Liz, Nell, Ann & Till,
Well, it is all over for poor Dave.
It
was a godsend for him to go and I had prayed to God to take him. I
watched him going down for the past three months and I knew there was no
hope of his recovering. He finished up absolutely helpless and could not
even turn in the bed without help, and on top of that his mind was
deteriorating. When I got a phone message last Sunday about
noon
, I immediately rang our parish priest and he beat me
to the convalescent home. He just couldn’t do enough for Dave and
returned three times during the afternoon and arrived again five minutes
after Dave had breathed his last about
7.15 pm
. He seemed to be conscious and could hear us praying
for him. I could see him trying to answer when the priest said “Lord
have mercy”. After a while he opened his eyes and put his hand on my
shoulder and said “Hello” and that was the last word he spoke. On
Monday and Tuesday morning
8.00 am
mass was said for Dave and the nuns and school girls
sang the hymns. Words can’t describe the requiem mass yesterday.
Twelve priests con-celebrated the mass and John helped and read the
Gospel. The nuns and girls lead a packed church in the singing of the
hymns. I don’t think anything like it has been seen or heard in Wynnum
before. Fr Andrew (parish priest) and Fr Hannah (provincial of the
Oblates who came from
Perth
especially) gave the eulogies and they were
wonderful. In fact when Fr Hannah called here in the afternoon, I told
him he must have been speaking of someone else. He said when he finished
he was nearly going to say “Now, we’ll let Mrs Wotherspoon have her
say”. He is a mighty man and John is lucky to have him for a superior.
Oh yes, at the Vigil on Tuesday night another Oblate priest gave a
wonderful eulogy too. In fact it may have been the best of the three. A
packed church that night too. The cortege was miles long and I think it
was the largest ever for Wynnum. The flowers were lovely and I didn’t
want to leave them on the grave in the sun. I wanted to bring them back
to the church but the boys wouldn’t hear of it. John read the
graveside service and he was wonderful. He just made it as he had a high
temperature and went to bed when we came home and is still there. I got
the Doctor to him last night and he has the “Wog”. Pete put up a
good show but he has been hit badly. He and Yvonne stayed with me all
the time Dave was dying and it was an awful experience for the two of
them to watch him. Bill W and family attended the mass so I guess Jean
will fill you in anything I have omitted.
Thanks
for the telegrams.
(D.J. – R.I.P.)
Love Aisla
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